Mourning In Style

It's sad, and I hate it; but death is a reality. At some point throughout all of our lives, we experience a loss of someone we love. Having recently said goodbye to my sweet Auntie Barb, it's fair to say that there were far more important things to think about than fashion. However, when it came time for her funeral, I had to buy an outfit. I think this is a detail many of those in mourning wish to skip over.

Memorial services and funerals serve a very important purpose: to celebrate the life and legacy of those we have lost. We are not there to draw attention to ourselves. Here is a list of inappropriate, steer-clear-of examples of what NOT to wear:

- slinky, loose-fitting, sloppy tops
- spaghettie-strap or strapless/tube tops
- anything that exposes the bra/bra straps
- denim
- lounge-wear (including yoga pants/sweatpants/sweatshirts/T-shirts)
- frayed/ripped/baggy clothing
- bright, vibrant, eye-catching prints/fabrics
- running shoes, or dirty scuffed-up shoes
- statement jewelry
I could go on forever...and yes, I have witnessed a number of these funeral fashion faux pas take place.

On the other hand, here is a list of things that ARE appropriate to wear:

- colour pallet of black/navy/dark grey
- dresses with high neckline, knee length, capped/full or 3/4 length sleeves
- simple nude/black/navy pantyhose
- black/dark grey heals with a modest height
- if you must wear jewelry, keep it simple simple simple!!
- if the ceremony is in a colder season (aka 90% of the year in Canada!) wear a long, clean, dark dress coat; dark leather gloves and dark scarves are also appropriate for the trip to/from the venue.

I think I have delivered my point as best as I can without turning this blog into a novel. If you are clueless, just remember: keep it simple. This isn't about you, it is not a time to make a statement. Keep it covered.